Praise be to Allah
The Muslims are unanimously agreed whether he is Jewish, Christian or anything else, because Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning) that it is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim,:
“And give not (your daughters) in wedding to Al-Mushrikoon till they think (in Allah Alone) and verily, a thinking servant is preferable to a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), and even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikoon) ask you towards the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His allow, and makes their Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, classes, indications, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember”
“…then that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them if you ascertain”
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allah have mercy on him) stated: The Muslims are agreed that a cannot that is non-Muslim from a Muslim, and a non-Muslim man cannot marry a Muslim girl.
End estimate from al-Fataawa al-Kubra (3/130).
Furthermore, “Islam would be to prevail and it is never to be prevailed over,” once the Prophet (blessings and comfort of Allah be upon him) stated.
Narrated by ad-Daaraqutni; classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami‘ (no. latin bride gangbang 2778)
The person is in a posture of leadership on the woman, which is maybe perhaps not permissible for a non-Muslim to stay in a situation of leadership over a Muslim girl, because Islam may be the religion that is true all the religions are false.
In cases where a Muslim girl marries a non-Muslim guy, once you understand the ruling thereon, then she actually is a zaaniyah and it is susceptible to the hadd punishment for zina. Then she is excused, but they must be separated, with no need for talaaq (divorce), because the marriage is invalid in the first place if she was unaware of the ruling.
According to that, the Muslim girl whom Allah has honoured with Islam and her guardian must watch out for that and abide by the restrictions set by Allah, and start to become pleased with being Muslims. Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation for the meaning):
“Whosoever desires honour, power and glory then to Allah belong all honour, energy and glory (and another could possibly get honour, energy and glory just by obeying and worshipping Allah (Alone))”
We advise this girl to get rid of her relationship with this Christian man, since it is not permissible for a lady to create a relationship with a guy that is a non-mahram to her. it has been talked about formerly into the response to question no. 23349
But then there is nothing wrong with her marrying him, if her guardian agrees to that if he chooses to become Muslim willingly and voluntarily.
But, we advise exactly what the Prophet (blessings and comfort of Allah be upon him) instructed, which can be that she should choose for by herself somebody who is consistently committed as well as good character.
We ask Allah, may He be exalted, to create her affairs directly and guide her.
To learn more, please see the response to question no. 83736.
Duties of a Christian Wife to her spouse
The spouse should keep in mind that upon her, to your extent that is greatest, devolves the work of making house delighted. She have to do absolutely nothing to make her husband feel uncomfortable, either mentally or actually, but having said that she should attempt to the most of her capability to do whatever is the best calculated to please him, continually showing him that her love, plighted upon the altar, continues to be steadfast, and that no vicissitudes of fortune can alter or reduce it.
She should not have pleasure in fits of mood, hysterics, or other practices of ill-breeding, which, though an easy task to overcome in the beginning, grow and strengthen with indulgence, if she should retain her spouse as her fan and her dearest and nearest buddy. She should really be quite as newly made respecting her gown and appearance that is personal house as whenever she seems in culture, along with her ways towards her spouse must be as sort and pleasing when alone with him as whenever in business. She should keep in mind to retain the nice viewpoint of her spouse will probably be worth more than to get the nice viewpoint of a huge selection of the devotees of culture, and that she receive the respect and esteem of all his friends as she possesses the love and confidence of her husband, so will.
She ought to be careful never to confide to some other any misunderstandings that are small petty quarrels between by herself and spouse, should any happen. Here is the method that is surest of widening any breach of harmony which could happen between wife and husband, for the greater amount of such misunderstandings are discussed, plus the more advice she gets from her confidants, there is certainly less likelihood that harmonious relations should be speedily resumed.
The Wife a Helpmate
The spouse should work openly and honourably in regards to cash issues, maintaining a defined account of her expenses, and very very carefully guarding against any extravagances; even though her husband is industriously at the office, she should look for to encourage him, by her very own frugality, become affordable, thrifty, enterprising and prosperous in their company, he can be better enabled, as years pass by and household cares press more greatly for each, to cover all of the conveniences and maybe some of the luxuries of the pleased house. No condition is hopeless as soon as the wife possesses tone, choice and economy, and no outward prosperity can counteract indolence, folly and extravagance in the home. She should consult the disposition and preferences of her spouse, and endeavour to guide him to high and noble ideas, lofty aims, and temporal convenience; be ever prepared to welcome him house, as well as in their companionship draw their ideas from company and lead him into the satisfaction of house conveniences and delight. The impact of a great spouse over her spouse is extremely great, in the right direction if she exerts it. She should, most importantly things, study to master the disposition of her husband, if, perchance, she finds by herself united to a person of fast and violent mood, the most discernment, in addition to perfect equanimity, on the component is needed, for she needs to have such perfect control of by herself as to soothe their perturbed spirits.
Obtained from “Australian Etiquette” (1884), quoted in HQL-0027, p. 29-30